Why Home Matters—
Even When It’s Gone
A Day of Disaster Relief
Burnt to the ground.
I stood among the ashes of what once was a home—now looking more like a scene out of War of the Worlds. Only a chimney stood proud, rising above the flat black rubble.
This past month, I spent a day with Samaritan’s Purse helping recover homeowners’ treasures after the Eaton Fire. We searched for anything—anything—that could still hold meaning and had somehow survived.
We found a few coins from an old collection. Some pottery with sentimental value. A piece of metal heart art that once hung in the hall. And a ring.
It wasn’t much, but it brought a small light of hope to a few worn and weary faces.
As Southern Californians, we’re used to fire season. The hot, smoky days. Most of the time, we’re fortunate to remain unaffected. But the Eaton and Pacific Palisades fires hit differently. Whole communities—once considered safe—were wiped out. The losses have come up in many of my design meetings recently.
Can you imagine?
Suddenly, everything you’ve worked so hard for—gone. Family heirlooms, books, furnishings, even newly remodeled spaces.
It gives us all pause. What’s truly replaceable? What’s not?
I’ve had multiple suitcases stolen in my life. At the time, a few of the items inside felt very important. But now, years later, I can’t even remember what was in them. A distant and foggy memory.
We’re constantly bombarded with advertisements telling us that if we just had this one thing, our lives would be better. And honestly? Some of those things do make life better. But many end up tucked away in the closet—or years later, out at a yard sale.
So with all this in mind… what really matters? Should we even invest in our homes?
Of course we should. Transformed spaces transform lives.
So why do our spaces matter?
But the part that matters most isn’t the beautiful, finished space—it’s the moments created within it.
It’s your kids (or grandkids) doing their homework on the new kitchen island, while you sip coffee and quietly marvel at how they’re growing up.
It’s hosting birthday parties or a Galentine’s event, sharing laughter and chocolate cake around the dinner table.
It’s soaking in your new tub, letting the stress of the day melt away.
It’s a romantic evening at home with your spouse, just the two of you.
It’s waking up hopeful each morning because the way the sunlight hits your face through the window near your favorite chair reminds you—everything’s going to be okay.
It's everything you CAN take with you
It’s not about the show. Or the trends. Or keeping up with the Joneses (or their Instagram). If it all burned up tomorrow, what would you still have?
You’d have those memories. Those moments. The people who matter. And that time together—that can’t be taken away.
So don’t hold back.
Make your home everything you want it to be.
Remodel the kitchen. Repaint the patio. Invest in beautiful, lasting furniture. And do it in a style that makes you happy.
Be bold. Use color. Create spaces that bring you to life.
Because with each transformation, the moments that happen in your home will become deeper, richer, and more meaningful.
And you’ll be all the richer for it.
Want to Help?
If this story moved you, consider getting involved with Samaritan’s Purse. They’re often some of the first to arrive after disasters—offering practical help, hope, and a reminder that people are not alone in their loss.
Whether it’s sorting through ashes to recover something meaningful or simply showing up to listen, volunteers make a powerful difference.
You can support their work in two meaningful ways:
- Volunteer: Give your time to help homeowners facing unimaginable loss.
- Donate: Contribute financially to help fund supplies, equipment, and emergency relief.
Every small act of kindness helps rebuild not just homes, but hope.
Learn more or get involved today: Samaritan’s Purse
